Joseph Avenue Christmas is the story of one man's journey to the true meaning of Christmas. Not just the birth of the babe, but the salvation of the soul. Set on the wintry streets of Rochester, NY it is a visit to the heart of that city and the hearts of some of its best and bravest people. From their good example, and the simple lessons of their own lives and faith, a troubled man finds on a dark Christmas Eve an escape from an increasingly failed life.
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There is a story in the Bible about a handicapped man who sat by a pool of water.
It was in Jerusalem and for almost 40 years he had been crippled, broken and weak in body, unable to do what others did.
And he sat beside that pool of water hoping for a miracle.
The story is that periodically an angel would come and stir the water up, splash it or something. And the first person to step into the fountain after it had been troubled would be healed of his infirmities.
And so the sick and handicapped gathered there, waiting for the stirring of the pool and the chance to bathe in its healing waters.
But this guy had a problem.
He was too slow.
And that’s what he told Jesus.
One day, when the Savior was in town for a feast, he stood over the man and asked him if he wanted to be healed.
The man answered that he did, but he had no one to carry him to the waters. By the time he could crawl into the pool himself, others had already gotten there – the healing had been claimed.
So Jesus told him to get up.
He told him to get up, pick up his bedding, and walk.
And he was instantly healed, and able to do as he had been instructed. And on his way he went, carrying his bedding, presumably ecstatic at this miraculous gift of health.
Imagine it. Thirty-eight years of crippling handicap, and in an instant he was made whole. What a glorious thing to see.
And what an odd thing to ignore.
Because as he walked away with his bedding, he was accosted by others. Antagonistically, accusingly. It was the Sabbath, the holy day of rest, and it was against the Jewish law to do work. And that included carrying things around.
There was a rule, and this guy was breaking it, and everybody wanted to tell him about it.
They were seriously angry.
Somebody was going to get condemned over this.
It’s amazing, if you think about it. These people – who well knew this man’s history – saw the fruit of a miracle. A handicapped man walking about, completely whole. And yet they couldn’t see the miracle because they were incensed by the violation.
They couldn’t see the good because they were fixated on the bad. When they should have been rejoicing, they were busy judging.
Instead of asking how he came to be healed, or expressing amazement or shock, or sharing his joy, they saw a chance, an excuse, to criticize – and they took it.
They were so busy judging and condemning, they missed the grace of God.
I think a lot of us are that way.
We claim such a “right” to judge other people that we presume our entitlement is preeminent. If you have done something wrong, by our standards, then that wrong trumps everything else. It is the only consideration. It is all that matters.
What an impossible and unjust standard that is.
How poorly we ourselves would fare under such a standard.
How much good we are blinded to by our lust for seeing bad.
Too often this attitude of disqualification colors our perception of others. We judge people not by the good they do, but by the bad. Not by their strengths, but by their weaknesses. Their beauty is lost in our fixation on their warts.
The problem with that is, we all have warts.
None of us is perfect.
And while we all should constantly work to overcome our weaknesses and imperfections, it is usually wrong in the meantime to throw us away for being flawed.
In our relations with others, we ought to encourage the good more often than we condemn the bad. That is not an argument for permissiveness, it is merely a recognition of the reality of the human heart. You cannot chastise a man to glory, and you will get much further down the road of human progress by praising than by scolding.
Clearly, there are times to judge and condemn. Your desire to be positive must not be twisted into dishonesty. Bad things do need to be denounced, and people do occasionally need to have the riot act read to them.
But reproof must always be done in a spirit of love, with an eye toward change and improvement, not condemnation and rejection.
Because people are miracles, and they have the potential to be even more. And it would be a shame if our judgmentalism blinded us to that fact.
It would be a shame if our self-righteous desire to condemn our neighbor never allowed us to see him as God sees him – as a being as worthy and relevant and loved as we are.
If we can overcome our impulse to condemn the failings of others, who knows what miracles we will finally be able to see.
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